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Write Jewish wedding vows
Whether active in your faith or lax, many couples prefer to include religious aspects in their marriage ceremony. That may include traditions such as the Jewish wedding breaking of glass at the end of the wedding or the inclusion of favorite Protestant hymns during the ceremony. Even with these Jewish wedding traditions, there is room for individuality. A good way to include your own insight and personality into a traditional wedding is to write Jewish wedding vows. When the rings are exchanged, your words will bond you to your spouse. Isn't that a fitting way to begin your new life?
What to expect from a Jewish wedding
If you are converting to Judaism just prior to your marriage then you may be unfamiliar with many traditions within the faith. For instance writing a Ketubah, or marriage document. Rabbi Allen can help you write this document which is a kind of contract between the bride and groom. If needed, the rabbi will also assist in writing traditional or modern Jewish wedding vows. In Judaism, the exchange of rings is the central part of the ceremony which is why many couples prefer writing their own vows. Writing them enhances the tradition, making it very unique to your specific marriage. A Jewish wedding ceremony is filled with wonderful traditions, but you can put your own signature on the event!
Jewish wedding: breaking of glass
Traditionally, a Jewish wedding has been incomplete if the groom did not break a glass at the end of the ceremony. This is a very fun and integral part of many ceremonies, but did you know that the origins of the tradition are unknown? One theory is that in ancient times, a glass was broken when celebrants began to get out of hand. This reminded them to keep their composure. Some say the broken pieces are to remind us of the broken pieces of creation. Finally, there is a wives tale that says the broken pieces equal the number of years the marriage will last. Whatever your feelings on the matter, the Jewish wedding breaking of glass tradition is an integral part of the ceremony.
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