There are many things that a wedding planner can help you with. They can help determine the wedding ceremony program, the color scheme of dresses, invitations and tuxedo trappings. Planners will determine the type of food and dessert or cake that should be served at the reception. A planner can also help determine where the reception should be held and the different decorations for the hall and the church or synagogue. A planner, however, cannot help you to write your vows or determine ceremonial readings as well as a rabbi can. Some favorite ceremony readings for weddings are from the Old Testament and include passages from:

• Song of Songs/Song of Solomon
• Psalms
• Ecclesiastes

Some traditions to include in your wedding are the sharing of wine to symbolize the cup of life, the Hebrew Seven Blessings and standing under a canopy, or chuppah, that will symbolize the new home of the bride and groom. The breaking of glass and wearing head coverings are also Jewish wedding ceremony traditions that many couples choose to include in custom weddings. Writing individual vows is a lovely tradition that you and your guests will love. Personally writing your hopes, dreams and promises and then reciting them for your spouse is simply beautiful. If you are having trouble writing vows or deciding on ceremony readings for weddings, let Rabbi Allen help you make the decision.

A retired rabbi, Rabbi Allen has officiated and co-officiated at many different types of ceremonies. Serving people and assisting them is his passion. Let that passion carry through to your wedding!

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