There are many traditions and customs in the Western world that have become a kind of joke in modern culture. For example, did you know that the white dress was not a symbol of virginity? Many make jokes about white weddings and virginity, but in fact, the color of white merely symbolized purity - a kind heart and a good natured soul - during the Victorian period. Virginity was actually noted by wearing a face veil. Both traditional and alternative weddings today usually include wearing a white dress or light colored suit, but this isn't necessary. It is also considered good luck to follow the tradition of carrying something old/new/blue/borrowed. None of these things must be included in any wedding, however. The only thing that the wedding ceremony needs is two people committed to working together for the rest of their lives. If you are planning a traditional wedding or gay commitment ceremonies, Rabbi Allen will help you choose the readings, music and traditions that will help you create a picture perfect day.

Planning a gay and lesbian commitment ceremony takes just as much time as planning a traditional wedding ceremony. You need to rent a hall, plan the reception, write the vows and find a church, minister or legal official willing to officiate or host gay commitment ceremonies. You also need to determine if you want a religious or non-religious ceremony. Whatever your plans, Rabbi Allen will help you make the plans and choose the right readings and music. Committing yourself to another human being is a huge step so some pre-counseling may be warranted. In addition to alternative weddings, Rabbi Allen will officiate at Jewish and interfaith weddings. Celebrate your life and love!

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